There’s nothing like discovering that you have cancer, especially if no one in your family ever had it. Cancer is a very dangerous disease, as anyone knows. It is only dangerous on the physical lever, but probably even more devastating on the emotional and mental level. Especially the forms of cancer that seem not to be taken seriously by those who don’t have it. This is especially true of prostate cancer.

There’s nothing worse then trying to exercise, eat right, watch your fat intake and control your blood pressure, only to be diagnosed with cancer. Cancer always seems to invade our lives suddenly, from out of the blue. In some people’s family there is a history of cancer. They partially expect it, but it is still a shock. For others, there is no history. There is no marker or rhyme or reason for them to be struck down with such an illness. How does one handle it when it happens?

In our last article we discussed centripetal force. Centripetal force was the pull that every individual has to go inwards, into their inner-self, in order to make sense of the world and to maintain healthy social boundaries. We talked about how healthy need often drew one outside of oneself into social interactions. Healthy need was associated with the individuals psyche needing to grow and expand its ideas about reality and the world. This pull outward is what we call centrifugal force.

In our previous articles we spoke about three of the Four Forces. We spoke about centripetal force, the movement of the attention inward, centrifugal force, the movement of the attention outward, gravity, the movement of the attention downward. Lastly we will discuss the fourth force, electro-magnetic energy.

As we joined in we looked forward to the beautiful sunny days in May when we wouldn’t have to worry about the rain. We realized, even as children, that the rain had to come so that flowers could blossom. Little did we know at the time that that was the secret of life. Sometimes rain and hardship would have to come, so that we could blossom. This is usually the case with the beautiful (I mean on the inside) people we know. These people have usually been through the rain and the storms of life. They have had some type of hardship and they have survived without becoming angry and bitter. In their case it has brought forth the fruit of patience and kindness, instead of anger and resentment.