http://www.pacificarticles.com en-us http://www.pacificarticles.com N/A rchamria@gmail.com Thu, 20 Nov 2008 23:22:29 -0500 20 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/5473/1/Relationship-How-To-Renew-Your-Relationship-Follow-These-Golden-Rules/Relationship-How-To-Renew-Your-Relationship-Follow-These-Golden-Rules.html When a relationship begins, everything looks rosy. The communication is great. Verbal and non-verbal communication between the partners is superlative. The partners plan about the future together and love everything that the other person does. They find their partner smart and ........ cd_mohatta@pacificaritcles.com (C D Mohatta) Tue, 15 May 2007 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1667/1/Mindfulness-and-Flirting-Seizing-The-Moment/Mindfulness-and-Flirting-Seizing-The-Moment.html Are you a flirt? Congratulations! It means you are paying attention... mayatalisman_frost@pacificarticles.com (Maya Talisman Frost) Sat, 29 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1574/1/How-to-Make-a-Dud-Relationship-More-Sexually-Fulfilling-A-Guide-for-Women/How-to-Make-a-Dud-Relationship-More-Sexually-Fulfilling-A-Guide-for-Women.html You want more intimacy and caressing; he wants that porn-star he watched last night on HBO. How can you reconcile two distinct sexual desires in one bedroom? San-Joyz@pacificarticles.com (Naweko San-Joyz) Wed, 19 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1223/1/Step-10-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Continue-Your-Personal-Growth/Step-10-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Continue-Your-Personal-Growth.html Personal growth is an essential component to an ideal relationship. Here's how to achieve it. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Mon, 17 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1222/1/Step-9-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Nurture-Bonds-of-Emotional--Sexual-Intimacy/Step-9-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Nurture-Bonds-of-Emotional--Sexual-Intimacy.html Nurturing an intimate bond with your partner starts with fully knowing and accepting yourself first. Here's how. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Mon, 17 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1219/1/Step-8-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Dont-Play-The-Victim/Step-8-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Dont-Play-The-Victim.html Victims never succeed, pure and simple. When they find their way into a relationship all manner of dysfunction can erupt. To find out whether you are falling prey to such behavior read this. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Mon, 17 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1215/1/Step-5-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Being-Personally-Honest/Step-5-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Being-Personally-Honest.html Here's what it means to be personally honest in a relationship. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Mon, 17 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1213/1/Step-7-To-An-Ideal-Realtionship-Always-Look-After-Your-Health/Step-7-To-An-Ideal-Realtionship-Always-Look-After-Your-Health.html The importance of taking responsibility for one's own health is a corner stone for a successful relationship. This is why many don't and what can be done about it. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Mon, 17 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1212/1/Step-6-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Be-Courageous-In-Your-Communications/Step-6-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Be-Courageous-In-Your-Communications.html Here's how to be courageous in your communications with your partner. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Mon, 17 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1211/1/Step-Four-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Assessing-The-Maturity-Of-Others/Step-Four-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Assessing-The-Maturity-Of-Others.html Tbe best way to assess the maturity of others is to know your own. Here's how. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Mon, 17 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1206/1/Step-3-To-An-Ideal-Realtionship-Nurture-Self-Awareness/Step-3-To-An-Ideal-Realtionship-Nurture-Self-Awareness.html Self awareness is one of the corner stones of success in a relationship. Without it your are not really present. To learn how to nurture it read this. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1205/1/Step-2-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Nurturing-Your-Self-Esteem-Self-Confidence--Self-Worth/Step-2-To-An-Ideal-Relationship-Nurturing-Your-Self-Esteem-Self-Confidence--Self-Worth.html Going into a relationship in a needy state is extremely unwise. To change this read on. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1203/1/Step-1-To-The-Ideal-Relationship-Doing-Your-Personal-Work/Step-1-To-The-Ideal-Relationship-Doing-Your-Personal-Work.html This is about achieving step one to the Ideal Relationship nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1200/1/Relationships-Love-Vs-Infatuation/Relationships-Love-Vs-Infatuation.html The heart has been discredited for too long for what it does not generate; feelings of infatuation. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1196/1/Ten-Steps-To-An-Ideal-Relationship/Ten-Steps-To-An-Ideal-Relationship.html Here are ten important steps to a successful relationship. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1142/1/Relationships-Ending-Shyness-Is-Not-About-Learning-Social-Skills/Relationships-Ending-Shyness-Is-Not-About-Learning-Social-Skills.html Ending shyness is not about learning new social skills it's about being able to be your Spontaneous Genuine Self freely and happily. You already exist deep inside, you just need to be set free! This article can show you the way to Freedom Today. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1141/1/Relationships-How-To-Overcome-Your-Shyness-Quickly-And-Painlessly/Relationships-How-To-Overcome-Your-Shyness-Quickly-And-Painlessly.html If you suffer from shyness or social anxiety and would like your life back then you may wish to read this article. It provides an answer that will set you free once and for all. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1136/1/Relationships-How-I-Overcame-Paralyzing-Shyness/Relationships-How-I-Overcame-Paralyzing-Shyness.html Here's my story about my struggle with paralyzing shyness and the discovery that changed my life forever. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1135/1/Men-Overcoming-The-Fear-Of-Emotional-Committment/Men-Overcoming-The-Fear-Of-Emotional-Committment.html What does it take to be a real man? It's not what you think. In fact it means addressing and embracing a part of you that you've likely been avoiding most of your life, your emotional inner life. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1129/1/Relationships-Self-Sabotage-As-A-Way-Of-Feeling-Safe/Relationships-Self-Sabotage-As-A-Way-Of-Feeling-Safe.html Do you find yourself contnually sabotaging your relationships? If so it's likely that you're attempting to keep yourself from feeling emotional pain from your past. If you want to free your self from such enslavement this article is for you. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1098/1/Relationships-The-Ideal-Relationship/Relationships-The-Ideal-Relationship.html Is it possible to define what an ideal relationship is? In my view the key foundation stone must be the the issue of taking full personal responsibility for the fulfillment of one's own needs. This entails a recognition of one's role in creating one's entire life experience. Do you have the courage for this? nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1095/1/Relationships-Do-You-Have-Trouble-Saying-No/Relationships-Do-You-Have-Trouble-Saying-No.html Are you a person who buckles when you want to express your displeasure about some demand made of you? Do you just take it on whether you want to or not? Do you then feel angry, frustrated, trapped and helpless to change the course of events? Well this article may save you your life. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1086/1/Relationships-The-Narcissist-Borderline-Relationship/Relationships-The-Narcissist-Borderline-Relationship.html This article relates how relationships go bad when there is a failure in the development of the personalities of the members of the couple. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1078/1/Relationships-Self-Pity-As-A-Form-Of-Abuse/Relationships-Self-Pity-As-A-Form-Of-Abuse.html Did you know that self pity was a form of abuse, both to the individual who finds themselves in it and for their partner? If not then you may find this article relevant and informative. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1075/1/Relationships-The-Unhealthy-Roots-Of-Forgiveness/Relationships-The-Unhealthy-Roots-Of-Forgiveness.html Forgiveness. It's not what its cut out to be. This article will significantly challenge your beliefs about forgiveness and by doing so help you restore your sense of honesty and personal honor. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1074/1/Relationships-Developing-Resilience-To-Emotional-Abuse/Relationships-Developing-Resilience-To-Emotional-Abuse.html Do you feel hurt when someone says something bad to you? You probably think that feeling hurt is a normal human reaction to this don't you? Well that is absolutely not true. In fact it is only because you harbor the same belief deep down about yourself that you feel hurt in the first place. If you would like to change this vulnerablity into a state of complete and permanent resilience then this article is for you. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1073/1/Relationships-Fear-Of-Being-Honest/Relationships-Fear-Of-Being-Honest.html Are you afraid to be honest with your partner even about little things? Is this because you're afraid of the repercussions to them and to you? Well have you ever really considered the repercussions of dishonesty? You might be surprized to learn that they are not only destroying your relationship, they are destroying your life! nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1072/1/Relationships-Becoming-A-Whole-Person/Relationships-Becoming-A-Whole-Person.html Do you ever feel lacking in emotional confidence, self esteem, self worth, an ability to face the world and to generally feel effective in your life? Do you use your relationship to compensate for not feeling like a whole person? Well if you'd like to change that then this article will take you there. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1071/1/Relationships-Ending-Codependence-Forever/Relationships-Ending-Codependence-Forever.html You've heard the term codependence. What does it mean? Does it pertain to you? Well if you've ever been angry with your partner I can bet that it does. Did you know that codependence is a warning sign that can spell the end of your relationship if not addressed? If I've got you reflecting on your situation then you may wish to read this article. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1070/1/Relationships-Fear-Of-Letting-Go-Of-A-Bad-Relationship/Relationships-Fear-Of-Letting-Go-Of-A-Bad-Relationship.html If you're stuck in a bad relationship the fear of letting go can literally undermine your happiness and your health. The many roots of this fear originate in early childhood experiences that many psychotherapies fail to address adequately. There is a new more powerful approach to feeling free and in charge of your self that I discuss in this article. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1068/1/Relationships-Love-And-Jealousy/Relationships-Love-And-Jealousy.html Do you confuse love for jealousy? Do you know the difference? Well if you don't then you shouldn't be in a relationship because you're not ready. If you want to know why read this. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1065/1/Relationships---Learning-To-Trust-quotYourselfquot/Relationships---Learning-To-Trust-quotYourselfquot.html When something bad happens in your relationship who do you turn to? Who can you trust? Well if you can't trust yourself then where does that leave you? Very vulnerable I'm sure. If you want to become more confident and resilient you will need to learn to trust your self always. This article is about that journey. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1044/1/Relationships-Revising-The-Meaning-Of-Friendship/Relationships-Revising-The-Meaning-Of-Friendship.html What's your definition of friendship? Well if you find yourself complaining about your friends it likely means that you need to reassess the meaning of friendship. This article helps you move from a place of mutual exploitation to one of mutual respect and therefore self respect. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1040/1/Relationships-Worry-About-Disappointing-Others/Relationships-Worry-About-Disappointing-Others.html Do you ever let the worry of disappointing others interfere with your decisions to do what you really want? Do you feel that this worry is preventing you from being fully honest with your partner? Is this eroding the level of intimacy that is so important in a successful relationship? Well this article is the place to begin to address this problem once and for all. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1033/1/Relationships-Fear-of-Rejection--Self-Sabotage/Relationships-Fear-of-Rejection--Self-Sabotage.html If you've ever been rejected and carry the fear of rejectiion inside you then you are prone to fail in future relationships. To find out why and how to release yourself from this destuctive pattern kindly read this article. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1029/1/Relationships-Coming-From-A-Place-of-Love/Relationships-Coming-From-A-Place-of-Love.html If you were ever disappointed, hurt, abused, or traumatized then I can definitely guess that your ability to feel and express Love from you Heart is impaired. This has significant consequences on your abiity to have a successful relationship. If you'd like to find your way to a loving relationship then this article may interest you. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Sat, 15 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1026/1/Relationships-Achieving-Intimacy/Relationships-Achieving-Intimacy.html Without self esteem there can be no real intimacy. Without real intimacy there can be no successful relationship. Low self esteem is the result of the sum total of all the traumatic life experiences you have had and which are stored inside you as memories. All these can be released quickly and easily thereby helping you achieve intimacy and a successful relationship. Do you have the courage or would you rather look forward to a disappointing separation? nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Fri, 14 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/1021/1/Why-Relationships-Dont-Last/Why-Relationships-Dont-Last.html There is a very significant reason that relationships don't last. It has to do with the fact that when two individuals join together "in love" they are most often joining together "in need" instead. The fulfillemt of such needs is only to be found within the Heart of each individual first. Only then can true love become the foundation of a genuine and strong relationship. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Fri, 14 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/964/1/Intimacy-The-Elusive-Ingredient-in-Relationships/Intimacy-The-Elusive-Ingredient-in-Relationships.html Intimacy, one of the greatest impediments to success in a relationship is actually about acheiving a level of personal honesty. If you'd like to know more about how to achieve this then this article may interest you. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Fri, 14 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400 http://www.pacificarticles.com/articles/963/1/Need-Disguised-as-Love/Need-Disguised-as-Love.html If you want to know why many relationships don't work please read this. nickarrizza@pacificarticles.com (Dr. Nick Arrizza, M. D.) Fri, 14 Jul 2006 00:00:00 -0400